Etheric Cord / Energy Cord / Psychic Cord between two people
Category : Cord Cutting
Those who are going through personal/spiritual development will notice spikes/peaks in the intensity and speed of their growth. Now depending on one’s level of cultivation, various effects can occur. One of these is your energetic and emotional connection to people around you, most importantly those you are in close relationships with.
The first thing to consider is that there is something which is called an etheric cord. These are basically lines of energy which emanate from the body and aura between two people. Cords will vary between individuals depending on their personality and relationship with the other person. For example, lovers will have a strong thick cord between them that glows bright. People who argue a lot will have a fuzzy dim coloured cord, and cords between people with distaste for each other also often link into body organs, especially around the stomach.
Have you ever seen the etheric cord that connects you to every thing on this planet? You may get a glimpse of it every now and again, especially in your most meaningful relationships. When we connect with another person, especially romantically we activate an energetic cord with them. As we continue through the relationship every interaction, thought, emotion and feeling is added to the cord.
This cord has the ability to share energy and transmit a high frequency of communication, which may explain why we often feel and connect telepathically to our partners thoughts and emotions.
When the cord is healthy, it can create a vibrant, energetic source exchange but when the cord is unhealthy, it can often lead to feeling controlled or drained in energy.
Most of us will intuitively know how strong our cord is with someone, but if you are unsure, a good measure is how strongly or how often you think or feel towards someone, especially if the thoughts are obsessive, manipulative or fearful.
We are constantly creating cords with many people and even objects, but if you feel drawn back to an unhealthy relationship, or want to break negative patterns or addictions, or feel a strong psychic connection to someone that is draining your energy, a cord cutting ritual may be beneficial.
Especially when it comes to relationships, cutting the cord can help break the energetic attachments created and can help you to move on to receive new opportunities in your life.
The second thing to consider is that these cords are a natural phenomena, just like how the scent of someone else will linger on the skin/clothes upon close contact. There are benefits and downsides to cords however and I will list some of them.
As mentioned before, people with distaste for each other will develop fuzzy dim coloured cords. This cord has the potential to influence ones emotional state, mental state, and energetic state. It can cause the subconscious negative thoughts one person habours to travel to the other person and thus alter their state. In such a case it can result in both people subconsciously sending ‘subtle negatives’ to each other without any conscious awareness of anything happening. You could just wake up in a bad mood for no reason, but really it could be a cord.
That is one of the negative aspects of a cord. A beneficial aspect of cords is that is literally keeps people connected. Where physical separation has it’s downsides, a strong cord can make up for it helping both people feel reassured on a subconscious level, and another person can send good vibes to someone else who is feeling down.
One overall issue of cords is that most people are not aware of them, so there is no upkeep on cords. In worst cases often physical/verbal action has to take place in order for someone to disconnect a cord from another since they don’t have the ability to simply cut the cord themselves and stop certain situations from developing. An example of a situation is where someone has an ex partner whom they’ve had negative situations develop from. Even through they have split, the cord remains. This means the new partners cords can become intertwined with the ex’s cord and thus disrupt the new relationship and things can go wrong with no apparant cause.
Personally I manage my cords often. I am now able to identify when a cord has ‘gone bad’ or when someone I’m connected to is actually trying to lower my frequency so that their cord remains attached to me. This is another aspect of cords that must be understood when it comes to relationships between people whether it be friendly, sexual, or emotional.
When your frequency threshold goes beyond another’s whom may be dependant on you in some way, it will cause subconscious stress to that person. Then with no conscious awareness, that person will do things to bring your frequency back down to a level where they can resonate with you. For them its great because their comforter who may be your self, remains in their atmosphere. However for you who belongs somewhere else, in a different atmosphere it will cause disruption and slow down our processes of development.
Ever noticed that when your happy, theres always someone or something that tries to bring you back down? Part of that is due to cords.
Also be aware that suddenly cutting a cord between you and someone can cause disruption in your relationship and how you perceive each other. Here is a scenario:
Say a cord between you and a close friend becomes tangled up. This means the energy transfer between both of you will form a disruptive static cloud around this knot, and it will cause all sorts of minor problems. You may stop being able to understand each other, you may feel disdain or get upset really easily with each other and if you reflect upon it, there will be no real reason and then your brain will try to define a logical cause, and thus you will create a problem out of nothing. So the obvious step would be to cut the cord. Upon cutting the cord, you will feel refreshed and relieved. But the other person who is not aware of cords may feel lost and confused, they may feel like you’ve done something bad, even though you’ve done nothing. This is why I will often tell people who are close to me that I am going to cut a cord. And whenever I do cut a cord, they do indeed notice the things I’ve listed above.
It is especially important for those with very sensitive empathy to maintain their cords because you can easily become overloaded with other’s emotions and energies and thus become destabalised. Now I will list some simple ways to interact and manage cords:
After cutting cords your may feel lonely or weird. During this time it is great to meditate and enter your inner self. Ask questions, play out scenarios, reaffirm your beliefs and state your ambitions and goals. This way when the cords begin to reform, there will be more sovereignty in the connection and there will be less disruption because you’ve made it clear before hand what will exist in your field/reality.
The energetic cords or connections can have a negative impact on our thoughts and energy levels. Although these connections can support and help us on our journey, they can also hold us back, drain us unnecessarily or keep us connected to those people and places that no longer serve us. Friends move on, we move to new homes, relationships change and the memories of places we have been no longer support us. Simply put, these connections no longer serve us, or are unnecessary, yet they remain and share information as well as draw upon our energy field. Some people can connect to us even though we would not want them to. Have you ever met someone in the shopping mall, or at the office, or a neighbor that after a few minutes together you feel drained energetically? These people have established cords to your energy field in order to draw upon your energy. These types of connections do not serve us in any way. They continue to draw our energy without our permission or awareness and can negatively affect our well being.