Divorce & Separation Healing | Healing the wounds of divorce

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Divorce & Separation Healing | Healing the wounds of divorce

Healing from your divorce is not easy.  It’s a long, sometimes painful process.

If you have recently been through a divorce, you may be wondering how long is the appropriate healing time after divorce and when you will start to feel like yourself again.

When a marriage ends because our partner leaves or betrays us, it’s natural to experience feelings of rejection. When we are left, it can be a devastating experience and it can leave us feeling angry, sad, and self-critical — at times, ruminating about what went wrong. We may be in shock and feel shaken to the core of our being. Self-defeating thoughts can grab hold because we are vulnerable and trying to make sense of things. However, it’s important to realize that this is a normal part of grieving and letting go after a marriage dissolves.

While it’s natural to go through a period of self-reflection when you are rejected by your partner, it’s important to keep things in perspective. Ask yourself if your fears of being alone are preventing you from looking at the breakup honestly. For instance, it’s likely that there have been problems in the relationship for some time and that one or both of you have been unhappy.

Part of the grieving process at the end of a relationship is accepting that what you wanted to happen no longer will happen. Thoughts might range from: We will never have children together, to the mundane: We won’t ever eat another meal together.

However, when we feel rejected, we might be listening to destructive “inner voices” . When we are listening to these destructive thoughts, we’re more likely to feel humiliation than real sadness over our loss. Our inner critic fuels feelings of not being able to survive on our own, often saying that no one will ever love us. When these voices aren’t viciously attacking us, they are often raging at our partner, which only supports a victimized orientation to a situation.

Feelings of rejection are closely tied to feelings of self-worth and self-love. Part of the healing process after divorce is recognizing and accepting that the way you feel about yourself affects the way you relate to people in the world. As you learn to accept what happens and begin to love yourself again, your feelings of rejection will diminish. When you’re connected to feelings of self-worth, you’ll have more energy to relate to others in meaningful ways.

Dealing with your raw emotions is part of healing after divorce. Divorce can be like a tornado. It takes your normal existence, tossing and turning everything in its path, leaving little resemblance of the life you had before. After it has passed, you are left to deal with the emotional baggage, wondering if you will ever feel happy and secure again.

 

When you think about it, aren’t guilt and rejection two sides of the same coin when it comes to emotions after divorce? It makes sense that a partner who decides to terminate the marriage would experience more guilt, while the person who is left would suffer from feelings of rejection. Notice the difference in their priorities. The dumper typically focuses on personal growth and will say things like ,”I have to find myself.” On the other hand, dumpees usually express a desire to work on the relationship and will say things like, “Just tell me what you want me to change and I’ll work on it.”

  • Is it possible to heal through your divorce?
  • Is it possible to “come out the other side” more in touch with your passions, hopes and dreams?
  • Can you reconnect with your body and find different ways to enhance your well-being?
  • Can you find joy and laugh often?

Yes its possible to heal the person of it’s effect. We want to help you on your journey toward recovery. Using spiritual healing energy you can be healed of a divorce effects and lead a normal life again.


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Black Magic & Spells To Break Up Marriage | Marital Discords

When two people are absolutely sure that they love each other and just cannot bear to be apart then you have recipe for a happy marriage. Every day all over the world there are weddings being held and many will have been planned for months or even years in advance of the big day. Some marriages will be conducted in churches, registry offices, banquet halls, old castles, temples, mosques and just about anywhere else you can imagine. The main thing about a wedding is that it becomes a memorable occasion. In some cultures marriage is for life regardless of any situations or circumstances that may arise during its process.

Sadly, and especially in the western world, many marriages fail and end in divorce within a few short years. However, in other parts of the world divorce is not really an option, although separation is usually tolerated. In order for a marriage to work each partner must be prepared to put in some effort. That includes sharing all responsibilities, working out any differences and developing a mutual understanding of each other’s needs. It’s also beneficial if there are some shared interests and views about life and policies. It’s obviously better to be one unit working together rather two separate parts working randomly.

For those who think of marriage as sacred, then they will usually be prepared to do almost anything to ensure it works to the advantage of both partners. However, sometimes outside interference can hinder a marriage causing unnecessary anxiety. That’s why it’s always best if the married couple have a place of their own well away from any interfering in-laws.

How do you know if your marriage has been cursed?

It’s hard to imagine why anyone would want to break up a marriage other than for pure spite, jealousy or envy but it does happen. One reason might be because a member of the family doesn’t like their new in-law or wants to get even with them over something. Whatever the reason for breaking up a marriage, black magic is sometimes used to create a spell that will tear a marriage apart. Again this could be down to a family member who might have the power to do this by themselves, or as in many cases, they will pay someone else to cast the spells on their behalf.

So how would you know if a curse had been placed on your marriage? It might start with small disagreements, which could then lead to raging arguments. The arguments might be about money, sex, property, children and just about anything. Trivial arguments that lead to blazing rows are a sign that something is wrong. False accusations of lying and cheating are other signs but in general there will be no harmony in this affected marriage.

Neither partner will suspect that someone from outside the marriage is controlling this endless stream of verbal abuse. Each partner will become so vexed and irritable that they could lash out and scream for the tiniest of reasons. If either of them could just step back they would see what others are seeing, but unfortunately they will not realise what is happening until it is too late. They will have reached the point of no return and the only option left will be to separate and eventually divorce. Nobody wants to be tied into an unhappy relationship but if you think there is more to your relationship problems than just a few disagreements it might be a good idea to seek advice from a spiritual healer.

Guruji has been helping people to stay married for decades. He can tell whether a black magic curse has been placed on your marriage and he has the power to remove it.


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