What are cords and why cut them?
A cord is a energetic structure that ties you and another person together.
When you form a relationship with a person, you make two types of connection. The first type of connection is the spiritual, positive bond that contains energies like unconditional love, good times and lesson learned together, fondness, affection – stuff like that. This is a positive cord that we never sever because it contains all that is good about therelationship.
The second type of connection is a negative cord of attachment – this energetic structure is very different from the positive type because it contains all the negative energies that have ever been a feature of your relationship. For example, let’s say you have a cord of attachment to an unfaithful ex-boyfriend. Encoded within this cord are the feelings you had when you found out he was cheating on you. This could be feelings of paranoia, energies of inadequacy; feelings of rage. Also encoded within the cord could be the pattern of wanting to please your boyfriend, so that he wouldn’t ever leave you.
When you split up, you may never see each other again, but the negative structure (the cord of attachment) between you remains. And this cord that connects you two contains those unhelpful patterns and dynamics: rage, inadequacy, paranoia; keeping quiet and pleasing others at your own expense.
Even though you are supposed to have moved on from the relationship, those energies circulate between you both and still affect you. For example, you still think of your ex-partner and you still despise him even though you wish you didn’t. When you get into a different relationship, you feel the same old paranoia. And things that happen remind you of the old relationship – even though it bears no resemblance, in reality. This happens because those negative energies from the cord are flowing into your aura 24/7 and affecting your ability to move on; or feel, think and act differently.This relationship is just one (dramatic) example. You can form cords with literally anyone you have (or have had) a meaningful relationship with, and each one is draining in its own way.
What is cord cutting?
Cord-cutting is a process that severs that negative attachment between you and another person so that the shadow of that past relationship does not hang over you or affect your behaviour in the present. This means that the rage, paranoia and inadequacy, particular to that fore-mentioned relationship can be eliminated. And obviously other relationships can be improved too because of it. It does not mean that you lose contact with the person or that it weakens the positive connection. Cord-cutting will never mean the person disappears from your life unless you consciously make that happen by severing contact. If anything, that pure, positive connection is improved because it is no longer overshadowed by negative energies.
(And note that by cutting the cord to an ex-boyfriend, it does not mean that you will not automatically ever have those patterns with anyone else – often it’s helpful to go right back to childhood and cut cords with parent figures and anyone who mistreated or abused you as well. But cord cutting does free up more of your energy and stops you repeating the pattern with the person in question.)
Who do we form cords to?
Most major cords are formed with:
Lovers, spouses (exes and present), children, parents, siblings, close friends, sexual abusers, any sexual partners.
More minor cords are often formed with: clients, teachers, bosses, co-workers, friends, acquaintances.
Every relationship is unique so you could have a major cord to your boss but a minor cord to your favourite sibling. Sometimes cords are so minor that they don’t affect you at all.
You will usually be able to tell who you have the most toxic cords with, because there will be a certain negativity associated with the relationship, no matter how much you love or respect the person.The most impactful cord cutting I’ve seen happens through cutting cords to parents, partners and ex-lovers.
How does cord-cutting happen?
An effective cord-cutting process will usually involve at least 10 steps and will take at least 35-40 minutes.
In order to cut cords effectively, you have to discuss (and understand) what negative patterns are a feature of your relationship with that person. You need to learn from those patterns and impact other relationships. Obviously you also need some intuitive ability to be able to find out what patterns are present within the cord.
The client really has to realize what these are so that other relationships can be impacted and so they move on from these negative patterns. Obviously you can’t do this if you just ask Spirit Guide to sever all cords to everyone you’ve ever known. After all, the cords contain valuable learnings and so Spiritual Guide won’t eliminate all those wonderful opportunities for learning, by just obliterating the cords. That would be like the earthly equivalent of cheating on a computer game. And it’s not possible to do because the divine beings who cut cords for us don’t oblige when we ask for their assistance in that regard.
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